Defining Atypical Sexuality: Kink, Fetish, Bondage, Open Relationships and More
Sex and sexuality, when discussed in our society can still be considered taboo or even in poor taste. But why? Sexuality starts when life starts and runs throughout our lifespan. It is an innate part of the human condition, a part of every human’s personality, and what many feel is a sacred part of our birthright. Not only is talking about sex difficult, but talking about atypical sexuality is even more taboo. I hope to change that.
What is atypical sexuality?
Many times those who consider themselves different, or are labeled different, feel the need to hide who they are and what they want sexually. They are afraid to talk to someone about the questions in their heads out of fear of ridicule or judgment. The type of “different” I am talking about usually refers to the arenas of kink, fetish, bondage, and multiple partners. Through my book, blog, talks and private practice, I teach what makes atypical sexuality successful and enjoyable, and those interested in them more educated and less confused. I aim to give you a place to be heard and ask questions, without shame.
Range of Sexuality
While people have been blazing atypical sexuality trails for thousands of years, most people in our society have been taught that there is only one “right way” to engage in intimate relationships. In reality there are many sexual and relationship styles that people throughout history have used in successful and healthy ways. While there can be a great deal of shame and embarrassment about atypical sexual behaviors, as long as they are consented to by all involved, they are not bad, wrong or immoral, just different.
As a healthy sexuality professional with over 30 years professional experience, I hope to teach others about different relationship styles and how to adopt different mindsets in order to successfully navigate them. Thinking from traditional relationship mindset will usually result in failure and frustration when applied to atypical relationship styles. I will also explore various ways of enjoying your sex life, which inevitably relates to shifts in your sexuality as a whole.
My blog will be addressing the wide expanse of sex and sexuality and the many variety of topics that come up in connection with it. If you have questions, please ask. I look forward to exploring healthy sexuality together! To speak further, I invite you to request a free consultation.